Its a hard one to cope with but things will ease, be gentle on yourself and realise that these things take time. I can so relate to you, Katy. I will not be OK again. WYG provides general educational information from mental health professionals, but you should not substitute information on the Whatâs Your Grief website for professional advice. Nineteen years we buried Freddy and we have never really recovered. I walked the country fields and city streets endlessly, talking to her spirit. The best piece of advice I got was to catch any tiny ray of light but probably for you it’s too early to see them. Before I was able to live and work and survive but now I feel alone without strength. He beat them to the top.) I’m so young but yet so hurt, Im 13. I will keep your words in mind as we gather to mourn my nephew and comfort my brother and his family. I feel your pain. Zina Sattler Jimenez May 23, 2019 at 10:58 pm Reply. He was only 30 when he passed over. You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers. So although my husband passed on Easter weekend last year, and that was in March, this year Easter isn’t until April, this weekend in fact. But I am still here and holding on. My children will never fully recover from this loss. Sheâd been my best friend and weâd done much on our own together in strange and lonesome places as my dad had travelled us round the world with his work when we were young. this has me venting and that is not what I started here to do. He lived with daddy and visited mommy 1,000 miles away. I have never recovered. I’m sending you a lot of love and courage all the way from Switzerland. Will it make you happy? Thank you & God bless. 1 week before she passed. I am so sorry for your loss. I’m just telling the truth as I see/feel it. Then I made it a year and met someone that reminded me of my love-I met him at a psychiatrists office. One day the sun will shine again, but i’ll be busy until then…. I am having a cryey day today and its days like this that I find this website so good in helping me to sort out and articulate the mess of my internal emotions and irrational thoughts. I stayed those 4 days and nights with her in hospital advocating for her medication treatment to ensure her a comfortable dying process yet she still suffered because the staff there would not listen to me and instead of giving her strong meds immediately it took a little more than half of those 4 days until she started calming down & feeling comfortable as my continuing battle with the medical team finally listened to me. I read so many comments here about difficulty moving on from a death and it pains my heart. He went out lots. Genevieve, Holly February 23, 2016 at 10:33 pm Reply. He was diagnosed and died 35 days later. I truly worry I will have a mental breakdown if all that I am feeling does not get better. These was a sign of God to take away his pain as he has suffered many years of a disease that nobody can figure out on their own terms. I am devastated and still in shock by the fact she had stage 4 cancer let alone her death today after only 6 days. She had been going to the hospital to see and take care of her mom so much – who had just had a heart attack and then a blockage. Â© 2020 by Tango Media Corporation All Rights Reserved. Although death is part of everyone's life, coping with grief is one of the most uncomfortable and difficult experiences you will ever face. I’m at the mercy of others for a ride. My mom never hugged me, never said hello, never liked me as her own. I know that none of us are getting out alive, and this is the way of the world, but I feel so cheated, so bereft. I am so sad that I don’t know how I will ever be happy again….. Sidonie Cromb July 11, 2018 at 8:47 am Reply. I didn’t even get a chance to process it becuase he died very fast. I feel for anyone who’s in this along with me, even though I don’t know you. I have nightmares of her trying to make it out like she did. But I don’t know how I’m going to get through this. It was such a shock! He didn’t come back. The first couple months- I did anything to keep busy and I handled all of her final arrangements. Shine your eternal light onto my soul and let me feel the joy of your love. I need my children. thanks for putting hope in others hands. I feel I can’t bear it. Recipient of the Association for Death Education and Counseling's Death Educator Award, he serves as the Director of the Center for Loss and Life Transition, in Fort Collins, Colorado. Synonyms, crossword answers and other related words for GRIEF We hope that the following list of synonyms for the word grief will help you to finish your crossword today. Should you study? Sorry for the long rant as I initially wanted to just say how much I relate to what you typed about how you are feeling. He was only 56. Grief changes us. No, no; âtis all menâs office to speak patience 30 To those that wring under the load of sorrow, But no manâs virtue nor sufficiency To be so moral when he shall endure The like himself. I’m sure you’re daughter well always remember how much her daddy fought to stay with you both. He was on his back. I would give anything to see him walk through that door again. My heart broke that day. Now he isn’t here, anymore & he isn’t in this world. I will always remember her last text to me that day while I was in class. Wanda Gomez May 13, 2017 at 4:26 am Reply. It’s so Hard getting thru without being able to Make amends! After I was adopted she stopped visiting,writing, or keeping any contact at all. She looked so peaceful as she must have known it was finally going to be done. He died on the first anniversary of her funeral. People sometimes take me for fifteen years or so less and I am fit and healthy and slim and up to my virtues still had modeling offers so Iâm not old, old; yet I am. At present I am out of wet cat food for my 2 kitties and the thought of just a simple short walk to the grocery store also fills me with dread. When I awoke 2 hours later I found him lying on my chest with his face to mine looking at me and he began purring once he saw me open my eyes to wake up. The loneliness at times is unbearable. I miss his presence enormously. We were building a life together and really wanting to make all our hopes and dreams of having a family of our own a reality.. I learned a lot during this process, I learned we are all grievers and all coping. If I wasn’t on the boat I was with the owners wife. When you are a friend or family member of someone who is mourning the loss of their beloved spouse, you may find yourself unsure about how to share your feelings, fearful of saying the wrong thing, and uncomfortable about what you should do. I got married (lost what widows benefits I had-and now have a permanent injunction that he is not allowed near me, obviously still not in my right mind) I was diagnosed with a muscle disease and was told I would be lucky to make it to 40. But now, she was going down. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer on 3/1/18 and passed away 6/7/18. I feel like my life is slow motion and dream like. After his death I had much to do back home and at work but needed to use all my holiday time and weekends to come back to visit poor mamma who was now so cruelly alone. I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in anyway I can. See more ideas about grief, quotes, loss quotes. How am I going to be the same when I am no longer whole? I then had to tell my poor old mam and dad and everybody else. Now I’m mourning the loss of my Dad whilst trying to study fulltime and raise my 3 kids on my own. Jenifer Hope Dawson-Amar October 25, 2019 at 4:25 am Reply, Hug them and remind them how much you need them. Coach Salif May 24, 2019 at 1:05 pm Reply. All my family, gone. It feels like I will never know happiness again. I’ve wondered everything imaginable and asked myself questions that would probably sound silly reproduced on paper or online. I lost my Ben 6 months ago. The repeating words throughout the song were, “And He never said a mumbling word.” I sang this as a prelude to the service, at the piano, welled up with emotion. Don’t give up. I find every single day like groundhog day. Until then, I’ll do my best to enjoy the life I have here. You are right, Bill. The quotes and comments here have helped me feel less alone. There was nobody to care, about yesterdayâs work discussions or my big night out. I sit in class thinking of ways to get lost. No way around it. Now, I am one of those odd people you hear of who have nobody. It was his father’s mission in life he grow up here. My entire life revolved around her and even today when I think of her and what am i doing here without her in my life my heart aches literally as though I will have another attack, i had to fulfill her wish and continue to live for the rest of the family. My partner and I had for twenty years or more always said that weâd look after our parents as they declined, and almost automatically agreed that in this case that I should give up a couple of years to stay and look after her. I am sending you a big hug as I know what you are going through xx, Sheila September 13, 2017 at 5:50 pm Reply. I think that’s what my mom wanted. They were brothers. The quotes on here have helped me many times. Really really alone. I cant help but feel so sad story after story and feeling somewhat relieved knowing I’m so not alone.. Jan 23 2018 my middle child tried her hardest to commit suicide at 14 and she laid in a coma for 4 days thank the lord for not taking her home it wasn’t her time .. 2weeks to that dark 23rd day in Jan on Feb 6th my father my hero the man who never left me went into a coma and died a few days later .. he beat 2 rounds of cancer one being lymphoid cancer and the 2nd being prostate cancer and turns around and dies of pneumonia.. drove himself 20 min away to a hospital at 4 am with 2 kidney failures and both lungs collapsed septic at check in .. that was my daddy strongest man I ever knew.. the one thing I got out sitting with my daughter as she , we fought to keep her alive was that my daddy sat with me for the 4 nites she slept comforting me from 10 PM to 4 am so I wouldn’t be alone when everyone else stayed at home to rest.. something I couldn’t do.. the day she woke up we said our goodbyes and we both cried because my daughters life was saved and all along the lord was actually preparing me for what was to come… my daddy going to heaven.. then if it couldn’t get any worse 6 months to later my niece, my best friend ,my daughter and sister all in one we were only 12 yrs apart fell out and died suddenly at 4 months pregnant carrying twins in her belly which we also lost.. now a year later I was diagnosed with congestive heart failure at the age of 44, they say my arteries are clogged but I think my heart can’t take any more pain.. Socially, weâd been very much a double-act. Furniture was knocked over in the living room; a small bookcase. Last Good Friday I was at the church where I play piano. All the best. Iâm lost and Iâm broken and I do talk about him and I do think things would be different if he were here. Guide me with your wisdom, so I may understand your plan. Perhaps you are reading this and you are the person who is grieving. I am lost in the world without my son. My lovely sister, who was all my soul. Animals have souls too and they are also capable of love. The different I WANT is to drive to him after the service. Even with all that in the final 24 hours she still showed signs of discomfort & it was so hard to witness. I was married for almost 39 years. I pray thee, peace! Itâs just sad to hear you moved on and wanted to start a new family. Thank you Dee Randolph. I finally understand what it means to feel numb. Those things wouldâve been completely separate from her love for you- unfortunately sometimes people arenât strong enough to do what they know in their heart is right…. Let these grief quotes remind you that we all go through it but that we all handle the loss in our own way and in our own time. The day after that I must go to my mom’s apartment to start making arrangements of packing up her things and bringing her pet fish home with me and i have 2 cats at my place that need to be kept from the fish tank. I am still here & he is still with me. And don’t forget to keep checking up on the person, weeks and even months after the loss. Calories give rise to energy but excessive level of calories appears into fats. His smell, his smile, his voice,his touch….I feel sick to my stomach and sometimes I just don’t want to be here. But I am. Jude Hersey September 4, 2016 at 8:00 pm Reply, I lost my cherished husband May 30, 2016 after knowing each other for almost 60 years. At his funeral, all the other attorneys and judges said what a kind, gentle man he was. My greatest regret is not praising him enough for being such a great single father. I loved her. I touched her beautiful face-to my surprise-she opened her eyes and smiled like I remember seeing her. My son died almost 4 years ago. I will always love him and will keep the memories close to my heart. I have no mother, father, sister, brother (I never had), child (I never had), husband or partner. We met 8 years later. He had a friend go in with him because he had a bad feeling when the phone AND knocking on the door brought no results. Anger, hopelessness, numbness and always the pain…the pain. I keep thinking that it was all a mistake or a nightmare and that he is alive and well. If thats not love and if that’s not considered lovable then I don’t know what is. The worst are the dreams that his alive. I felt like I was awake and in a nightmare. His destiny was to pass . Even though he had ALS and we knew he did not have much time. I am on meds. I hate waking up to face another painfilled day. She never wanted us 3 girls, never wanted a relationship with us. I do know I’ll see you again, but how do I make it until then.? I have my other son, Joe and my grand daughter and love them both of course. When the people you love are gone, youâre alone. He was not a nice person – to anyone and , as I explained to my 7 year old – he did not want to be a daddy. It is an emotional, physical and spiritual necessity, the price you pay for love. Good luck on your journey Kay. Bless all our lost loves and us-I try to remember they don’t miss us-they don’t know why we are sad, all they know now is happiness and peace-they are with all our others we lost. Now I have 4 children of my own. He always sorted everything !! I am so alone in my house that is no longer a Home and I cry all day. I had to take him to the ER with what I thought was pneumonia and he never left. A good quote serves many purposes. He was an attorney and was murdered by the ex-husband of a client that he represented in a divorce. Oh, I get up every day. It was my only comfort, to imagine her still by my side, as ever, yearning, as on one of our day-long meanderings of old. I’m so grateful my grandson is OK and the 17 year old in the other car walked away. On some level we must have known these were the mast of days. Me. She was gone. The more you detach yourself, the more you will be lonely, no one will understand the depth of your pain. Unexpected; he was killed; we had to say a post-goodbye at a funeral home on Christmas Eve because the DIL……it – the loss of an adult child is so horrific; not only did we lose our son but we lost our friend, who had become our peer. Jan 18, 2014 - Explore T R's board "Saying goodbye ( grief and loss quotes )", followed by 129 people on Pinterest. He was my firstborn child. What I wouldn’t give for one more smile, one more hug, one more ” I love you more”. I was a kid-stuck in a private room alone with the owner crying his eyes out being told I would still be part of the family and they would help me when I needed. I so believe that it is only people who have experienced this pain who can truly understand about the journey on the road we don’t want to be on to a place we don’t want to go ! I had not planned to come across this page let alone read people’s comments on their own stories of grief but I thank God I did. Reading about your own painful journey of grief in the loss of your mom really touched me as well as the similarities we both share did help ease a bit of my agony. I too am crying, because so many of these are how I feel. My partner shared in the immediate tragedy but I fear he became bored and impatient and maybe ultimately disgusted by the depth of my grief. At one point they said things had stopped growing so instead of waiting- they tell her its best to go on very strong caustic chemo to make sure it stays gone. She was taken to a better place at 10 pm that night. It changes over time but does not end. Oldenburg March 12, 2019 at 5:41 pm Reply. I’m so sorry for your loss Kay. Constantly leaving class and just running. It was almost like she was waiting to see her bro and I-shortly after we left-she refused meds-food and hospice came and took her where it isn’t so traumatic with the whole family looking and crying. With the loss of my son went also a total loss of my belief system. I still grieve my brother and parents everyday. Then there are all the accurate old established words: sorrow, anguish and suffering are at the top of my list. I then sat in the hospital for a month watching her slip away. I’m doing the music for a Good Friday service, and my car is in the shop. He was 78 and we didn’t expect that he would die. He was the lone survivor. I know your feelings of guilt; I have so many “if only, then maybe…” – and that’s hell. We had just begun entering a new adult-adult gentler more expressive era of knowing and hearing and telling. Just the thought of having to face another day and try to continue to work so I can have a roof over my head fills me with fear and dread. That is where I was waiting for them to come back from a dive trip. Melody Hope August 7, 2019 at 1:29 pm Reply, Don’t give up, you could out live us all….Cherish the memories of your lost love ones, and be Thankful God gave you such wonderful family to love, some don’t have that…My daughter has colon cancer, 34 years old, married with three kids, she is my best friend, I could not imagine living without her…I pray for her every day, she is a fighter and is getting better, it is still hard I can’t seem to let go of the fear . The hardest part is walking through those doors and talk to strangers about the most devastating thing you have ever faced, but once you do and you find the right group the world won’t seem so heavy because the first thing you will learn is that you no longer have to go through this alone. I have 5 children from ages 27 to 9 and I feel so helpless with them I have been in a dark cloud I can’t seem to find my out of.. Now that they are in school all day- I started from scratch and went back to school to get my pre-reqs. When my husbands injury/disability started- I put nursing school on hold to have children because I wanted to have that experience with him. I’m deeply sorry for you, can only relate and let you know you are not alone and life goes on but this is too early for you. He was a great man. O Jody I read your life story and it absolutely broke my heart. It sounds like you have found yourself a good man. It is rough when you need and want your Mom and she is not there. Jill Zwarensteyn is a writer and Michigan native who covers trending topics, pop culture and astrology. Actions Speak Louder Than Words. Yes lots of feelings can co-exist, some time I even feel I am just free! Then he curled up beside my head and put his face next to mine while I continued to cry myself to sleep. I insisted they never said that directly to her but we reassured her that although it was unlikely she was going to die any time soon, I would be with her and it would be fine when that distant day came. Hi there! I could hear that expressing todayâs thoughts on my loss sounded self indulgent and repetitive, while internally each day felt like I had a new angle on this grief, these events, a different nuance of emotion that I desperately needed to express and share …. We all need to be somebodyâs person, donât we; be somebodyâs responsibility; next of kin for forms and emergencies; Christmas. Next the temporary marriage created a wonderful sis in law of 12 years and she helped me so much mentally. Your definitely in my prayers, My wonderful twin brother passed away 9 months ago having lost his life to alcoholism . Khalil Gibran kind of says it all for me. I am lonely , I miss having him by my side, enjoying our life together. She always called me “Prince”…”My King”…”Daddy”…never my name, never. Nights and mornings are unbearable. I’m tired of crying. I missed you so much I almost couldnât handle. It all seemed so trite and reductive we decided not to add to the noise. The next day he was found dead by his best friend, who was also his landlord. It certainly does matter what people say because some people think I am crying because I am a single parent now but that’s not it, it’s the fact that we loved each other and we didn’t choose to leave one another. RELATED: 8 Ways To Console A Grieving Friend (That Will Actually Help). How can I do all of that and try to get thru each day without her. Although you may not understand the pain I go through. Fortunately, I was not out of the country but in ND, I am originally from Florida, we were moving to his home state. Find a counselor to talk to. Take 10 mins, quiet your mind and listen to your own body answer these questions. You are gone for now but not forever. Thank you for sharing your story here and I hope you don’t mind me sharing with you my story. Now reading the quote about “what separates us from the chaos is our ability to mourn people we’ve never met” I started crying again. Here are 64 (Shhh! Guilt for not doing anything when she was sad and lonely. I had my son for 3years. I never got a Happy Birthday from her The past 5 years. Priscella Valles May 26, 2019 at 7:14 am Reply. Are you still in contact with anyone on her side of the family that could help you communicate with her? Sending you love â¥ï¸, Shelley L Dumire October 25, 2020 at 12:18 pm Reply. I’ve lost friends because I don’t always handle my grief well; can’t always anticipate when its going to punch me between the eyes again. I keep my husband near me, in my heart at all times and I know that as long as I remember him, he is with me. Right now I’m just passing the hours listening to the crickets outside my window and waiting to get so tired I just pass out. My partner was somehow less involved. Her death has left such a big hole in my heart. Just 4 years ago my husband was killed leaving behind myself & our son so I was even more grateful to have my mom on top of my usual gratefulness to have her. I feel your loss. I really think this is about us. My father drank himself to death – and my husband is fighting every day to stay here…. Last week he was holding me and I started crying. The reverend becomes livid with anger and delivers a sermon that offends people in the town. My husband died very suddenly on our honeymoon 11 months ago We had both been married before but had been together for 19 years and our wedding was the happiest day of my life! She laid in a coma for 4 days but thank the lord I still have her and she is doing fine now but two weeks to the day she went into her coma my father my hero went into his own coma and died a few days later. I felt her pain one day in April-she didn’t want visitors anymore -2 hours away nobody is stopping me. We were both experiencing the same medical problems and both diagnosed with cancer within 2 days of each other. Find more ways to say grief, along with related words, antonyms and example phrases at Thesaurus.com, the world's most trusted free thesaurus. Iâm not that. I lost my Husband on Feb. 14 suddenly to a heart attack, he was 64. Sarah Cooper January 30, 2019 at 8:34 pm Reply. I was the “strong” one. He was a great fisherman, he was very well known in Pinellas County Fl, Bahamas, Dry Tortugus and private islands owned by the rich and famous. Grief is a 5 letter medium Word starting with G and ending with F. Below are Total 21 words made out of this word. I feel grief but his father and mother have oceans upon oceans of grief. I lost my Husband two days before my birthday on the 08/06/2017, it happened so suddenly I miss Him like grazy and know will ever replace Him. Sienna Tresenriter February 6, 2020 at 5:21 pm Reply. His grown daughters do need me when they hurt. I couldn’t believe how good it felt to truly laugh with someone other than my friends, children and grandchildren. I cannot walk out of this fog that will not leave me. Life truly is stranger than fiction. I wish I had done more, I know Ryan forgives, I know God forgives me. If it’s yes, then just go for it. I lost my adult son 3 months ago. Kim Singleton May 8, 2018 at 7:22 pm Reply. I will always love her and never thought I would lose her too. Thank you for sharing. I volunteer at a bereavement center, and I have have worked with a widows group, the one thing they all had in common was they felt like they were cursed. Synonyms for grief include anguish, sorrow, agony, distress, misery, pain, sadness, woe, affliction and heartache. People have a misconception that … I don’t know were I run half the time. RIP STEVEN EDWARD SHIELDS JR. 04/12/79 – 07/21/2017 YOU WILL FOREVER BE MISSED AND NEVER FORGOTTEN, GeneviÃ¨ve July 27, 2017 at 11:40 am Reply, Lisa, you are not alone. And my sympathy goes out to you. Exactly one month later he was gone. You have a long road ahead of you but try to remember your not alone. All of us siblings are fighting, not speaking, it’s such a mess. I never got it. Hannah December 9, 2018 at 6:44 pm Reply. Today is the first anniversary of my ex-husband’s death. Jodi January 19, 2019 at 12:34 pm Reply. I came back to my apartment and the reality set in and completely overwhelmed me. It was a horrible, unexpected death from the flu complicated because he also had diabetes. She deserved the world. Be aware of the highly sensitive people grieving. Today around 5:30 in the morning my mom passed away. Nineteen years ago we lost another son in a horrific accident. my feet just takes me. 94. His friend started screaming when he found him. My husband was killed by a stranger just 4 years ago so suicide for me is not an option as that would further traumatize my son so my only way out of this life is by God’s hands which is the hands if fate. My son died in the ambulance. I wrote you letters but you never responded. A long and horrible story cut very short, I had to come back home to my Mum & Dad with my 3 beautiful children and they helped me get through the second worst event of my life. The following advice might be of use: Lots of prayers-she made it one year and the worst year I have ever seen anyone go through chemo. I don’t know how to keep going. I’m at the mercy of others for a ride. A fire started in her home while she was in the shower and had no idea. I hope that you are actively engaging in self-care, partnering with your health care providers and looking at all the vast options to take care of you first. I’ve wondered why it happened ever since it occurred. After her incomprehensible death I had much to do so soldiered on, as you do, shell shocked, in deep inconsolable, endless anguish. “It’s a divine gift to find the light inside while in the midst of despair.” Unknown author, Diana Combs August 24, 2017 at 10:13 am Reply, Craig Stephen Gilders The Love Of My Life One Day We Will Be Together Again, GRISWOLD LISA July 27, 2017 at 6:28 am Reply, I have just lost the love of my life five days ago… He was on his way home from work when a drunk driver hit him head on causing the airbag to deploy and than setting the car on fire. Dunno what hit me or “triggered” my subconscious to actually type in this lo-o-ng search words/line on google: “quotes of feelings on losing someone special”…blah! Time doesn’t heal only the end heals. Grief is incredibly hard to experience, which is why it's important to remind those who are grieving that things will be okay and provide them with hope in spite of the pain. 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